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LUVERS AND FRIENDS......
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LUVERS AND FRIENDS......

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Last Post Nov 21, 2008 1:59 AM by: Samyukta
offline Samyukta
Posts: 11
Registered: 11/5/08

Re: LUVERS AND FRIENDS......

Nov 21, 2008 1:59 AM
hi dear just be a friend to him as he doest seem to be serious he will hurt u if u start loving him
offline Samyukta
Posts: 11
Registered: 11/5/08

Re: LUVERS AND FRIENDS......

Nov 21, 2008 1:58 AM
hi dear just be a friend to him as he doest seem to be serious he will hurt u if u start loving him
offline joy smiles
Posts: 3
Registered: 11/7/08

Re: LUVERS AND FRIENDS......

Nov 18, 2008 7:49 PM
WOW !! You are new at this love thing. Bottom line, just stay friends and live the life you had planned. This man is still a boy and can't or does not want to cut the strings with his ex-girl. That should be a major red flag. I bet his mind is mostly about getting you into the bedroom, and when he is not in the mood, you are just a friend. If you are having fun in there and okay with it all, fine.... but keep the 'love of my life' part in check. If you give this man your heart, he will only break it. He may not want to, it may not be his plan, but it will happen.
offline meg5081
Posts: 1
Registered: 11/18/08

LUVERS AND FRIENDS......

Nov 18, 2008 11:28 AM
i have a new guy in my life. i think he's perfect. he listens to me, he said ''i love you'' first, and he really really likes me just as much as i do him. but theres a a few problems in paradise:

1) we're both in college, and i'm wondering if he's just going thru a stage where he's using women....
2) i'm leaving to go to another school thats about 2 hrs away. i live like 20 minutes from the school we're at, but i can't help but wonder it there might be some distance issues wit us.
3) because i'm going to this other school, he's afraid to make this a serious relationship. and i understand because i kinda feel the same way.
4) the EX!!!! she is always try to get in between us. she told him he can't be friends with anny other girls but HER and he actually listens to her. she basically makes me feel inatimate and disrespects me in any way possible..... she's an azz.
5) he loves me, but i don't kno if he really does. i think he just has love for me in the sense of not being in love. he acts like i'm just his friend, but he said he wants to be with me. i think he's just using distance as an excuse.

what should i do.
should i just not be with him or should we remain friends and nothing more?

i need helo