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i need help on how to tell my mom a few things (im 13)
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i need help on how to tell my mom a few things (im 13)

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Last Post Jan 3, 2009 9:32 AM by: chelsea.leigh
offline chelsea.leigh
Posts: 4
Registered: 1/3/09

Re: i need help on how to tell my mom a few things (im 13)

Jan 3, 2009 9:32 AM
you just need to tell your mom even if you dont want to.

if your mom gets wierded out at first or does not accept it it is only natural. most moms dont raise their daughters to be bisexual and are confused at first about how it happened or hate themselves for letting it happen, eventually they will get used to it and accept it more. its just one of those things that takes getting use to. but who knows your mom may accept if from the beginning

but cutting your self, just dont do it. im sure you are a nice person and you dont deserve that you can do so much better. just think about all the good things you have and all the friends who love you and what would happen to your life if you were cutting yourself and people found out. they would probally make fun of you and think you were wired. cutting yourself if way bigger than its worth.
offline **Abi**
Posts: 3
Registered: 10/15/08

Re: i need help on how to tell my mom a few things (im 13)

Nov 26, 2008 1:46 PM
I know there is nothing wrong about being bisexual I have friends that are. I also have friends that cut them selves and i had to deal one of my best friends last year cutting them selve
offline Angel's Mommy41
Posts: 26
From: Somewhere here on earth at least I think so.
Registered: 11/9/08

Re: i need help on how to tell my mom a few things (im 13)

Nov 11, 2008 2:51 PM

Abi,

First let me say that their is nothing wrong with you being or thinking your bisexual, I have many friends that are. And they are the greatest friends on this earth.

But please, please don't cut yourself, there is way to much out there for you to llive for. You have friends and your family to think of first off.

Please sit down and talk to your mom, make a one on one talk with just you and your mom, tell her that there is something you reall need to talk to her about. I also want to send you this hug. ( Abi)

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Just live life to the fullest, and to tell the ones u love that u love them for their are no tomorrows in life and u may not ever get another chance to do so.
offline **Abi**
Posts: 3
Registered: 10/15/08

Re: i need help on how to tell my mom a few things (im 13)

Nov 11, 2008 5:14 AM
Well you definitly need to tell her these things just go tell her and if that doesnt work write her a note
offline hottopicluvr
Posts: 1
Registered: 10/28/08

i need help on how to tell my mom a few things (im 13)

Oct 28, 2008 3:59 PM
ok i know most of you are moms so thats why i came here to ask this question and not girlspace like i usually do with my problems
i have two or three questions

1) how do i tell my mom that im bisexual ?
2) how do i tell my mom that i am having thoughts about cutting myself and almost did ?