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Pain during intercourse

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Last Post Nov 14, 2009 1:36 PM by: Polly1

Polly1

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Re: Pain during intercourse (help)!!!!!!!!!!!

Nov 14, 2009 1:36 PM

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	hi. is his penis to big? because that kn be the problem sumtime. and thats how it is with meh but after a couple of times i was fine

Tenishia M.

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Registered: 11/1/09

Re: Pain during intercourse (help)!!!!!!!!!!!

Nov 1, 2009 7:16 PM

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	You need to make an appoitment to visit your GYN in order to find out why you are having so much pain during intercourse. Have your boyfriend go with you to talk to the doctor as well. You both will gain helpul information from this professional. If you are not already on bith control you may want to seek getting an Rx for some. You MUST always use protection. (condoms) Do not allow this young man to tell you that it cuts off his circulation. It is latex. It will stretch. Changing the status of a relationship to now include sex is a big deal and should be handled with care. Make all the necessary steps to remain healthy and to have a safe sex life.

KryssLove

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Registered: 8/13/09

Re: Pain during intercourse (help)!!!!!!!!!!!

Oct 31, 2009 12:02 AM

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	hi im 18, and had sex for the first time last week, it hurt really bad!!!!!!! i was trying so hard not to cry! ive tried to again several times, but the pain still feels the same, it hurts so bad that im scared to try again. it scares him so much, cus my legs start shaking rly bad!!!!! and theres no pleasure in it at all. and he doesnt want to use a condom ne more cus it cuts off circulation, so he pretty much just goes flat after a minute. its really horrible, i dont know what to do. any advice please?

DoriBeth

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Re: Pain during intercourse

Mar 12, 2009 4:37 PM

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	I had that too, and it difficult. I ended up being dx'd with endometriosis and cysts, but if u got pregnant, your chances of the endometriosis are slimmer. You def need to get to a doctor that will test u and see what's going on. I hope u can get it all figured out.

lost_reality

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Re: Pain during intercourse

Mar 12, 2009 8:33 AM

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	That kind of pain is definitely bad. Have you been going to really GYN appointments? they normally ask if you are having pain. Either way you should definitely see your GYN or seek a different one, ask a friend they may have a better relationship with their doctor. but you have to GO TO THE DOCTOR! That kind of pain can be caused by an infection which will only get worse without treatment. lol not that it is a reliable source but there was an episode of private practice a couple of weeks ago where a woman just got married and she was virgin and they couldnt have real intercourse because she was in soooooooo much pain, she couldnt even get through a vaginal exam comfortably so it wasnt a problem or size or lack of lubricant. Turned out she had chronic yeast infections which without treatment had irritated the nerve endings so badly her vagina had clamped together. I do not know if her problem is just scripted or an actual problem but is an example of things that can and do happen. I suggest you find a new doctor or even just see your own and describe the pain. At the very least they could tell you what everyone else has said try lubricant, and new positions. but I would hate for it to be something worse that you were really missing. Sex should be relaxing and wonderful not so painful that you cant enjoy it. I hope you find relief, please let us know how it goes. we want you to have fun too

MammaG

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Re: Pain during intercourse

Jan 9, 2009 11:48 AM

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	STOP HAVING SEX and get to a real gynecologist. This is not an issue that you should trust to strangers' advice. Unless your husband is a monster, he would not have sex with you that causes you pain.

chrissy15ox

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Jan 8, 2009 4:00 PM

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	hi! i have had that problem, everytime i had sex it would be like my vagina was not exanding enough for the penis to enter. i tried the lubricant and that really didnt help it was less painful going in and ot but while it was inside it was like a pain that my clitoris was tight! i also tried to go to different positions. that helped me! i would suggest a position that keeps your legs spread widely apart because that would help your clitoris to expand to the size of your husbands penis. i know thats very graphic but it helped me.. also tell your husband that you are having the intercourse pains.. he should udderstand to the point where your crying you should teell him you are in pain and he should stop! dont bear it out if its that bad.. you might seriously have a problem and having intercourse more and more may worsen it! hope i helped.. good luck!

J-Net

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Re: Pain during intercourse

Oct 30, 2008 3:03 AM

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	A few questions. When does the pain occur?? Is it immediate upon entry or is it after a few seconds during the act? You don't mention your age or whether you have had other experiences with other men that weren't as painful. I have a friend whose husband's penis is really large and she experiences discomfort during intercourse every time. What she has done was to apply lubricant to her husbands penis prior to intercourse and it has greatly reduced her discomfort. Could it be that your vagina doesn't excrete enough natural lubricant? Could also be that your clitoris is overly sensitive if that's the cause I would recommend trying a desensitizing gel that you can purchase at the drug store. Otherwise I would recommend consulting another doctor about your problem. It won't hurt getting a second opinion. Hope this helps!!!

wonder woman

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Re: Pain during intercourse

Jul 18, 2008 9:51 PM

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	I would say try it to find out. If the pain is still there see a different doctor for a second opinion. I hope it helps

Mrsgyzer

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Registered: 7/17/08